I'm going to cut a long story very short
I have suggested getting a cleaner to my DH numerous times because I'm absolutely sick of everything being left to me. He will sometimes really surprise me and go on a cleaning frenzy but it is very, very rare. I'd say of the day-to-day stuff it's usually all left to me. The only job he seems to think doing is the hoovering and even the. I have to ask him to do it.
He's somewhere between the 'not seeing mess' kind of guy and the guy who just can't be arsed. I'm just tired of it.
Whenever I have suggested a cleaner he has always said we don't need one, we aren't paying out for someone to clean the house when we can do it ourselves. I find it very ironic that he uses the word 'we' in this sentence. He makes empty promises about how he will help, blah, blah, blah, but nothing gets done. His favourite sentences are, "I will do it later." and "I will do it tomorrow." I'm tired of nagging him and fighting over it.
We have an 11 week old DS and when I was pregnant I told him that thongs would have to change when the baby came - but despite his assurances nothing has. I'm sick of looking at a dirty, messy house and feeling like it's down to me to sort it. Whenever DS is asleep I find myself doing housework, I never get any time off and I'm sick of it.
So I have decided that enough identify. I don't care how much it costs, all I know is that things have to change. I'm not doing it anymore!!
I will be ringing the company later to arrange a free valuation of our cleaning costs (for a one off big clean and also a regular thing) and DH is just going to have to like it! Decision has been made as far as I'm concerned!
Slightly worried about how lazy I might feel if I have people cleaning my house whilst I'm chilling out and watching the TV though....
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To tell DH that we ARE getting a cleaner - no excuses anymore.
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Writerwannabe83 · 12/06/2014 08:52
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