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In thinking my BIL and SIL are vile disgusting arseholes

(129 Posts)
Scrumpy100 Thu 05-Jun-14 21:26:06

I have name changed specially for this, as I am a long time poster and normally post about serious issues, which could also possibly out me. Although if those dirty fuckers are reading this they will know it's them.

My BIL (dp's brother) and SIL stayed at our house last weekend to house/dog sit plus use it as a mini break as we live in a touristy place. Me and DP were away at a wedding.

I am on FB but not under my own name due to my job, and I mainly use it to keep an eye on our teens. Nobody knows in my family I have an FB account as I don't want lots of friends requests and to end up being a full on FB presence!

Anyway, my SIL's profile is open, and I went and had a look, they had out a status about great weekend in [touristy place], and there are about 60 comments underneath, through which transpires that they had sex in our hot tub but he "slipped out" and there was "bubbly spunk".

The utter utter dirty bastards - the water has not been changed - they wouldn't know how - if I hadn't seen that on FB us or the kids might have been in that water soaking in his fucking diluted sperm. Vile.

DP is utterly embarrassed by this and says leave it, we won't have them stay again - don't say anything, but I have the rage and want them to know I know.

Grrrrrrr sorry but needed to vent!!!

SweepTheHalls Thu 05-Jun-14 21:27:10

Utterly grim.

TrueGent Thu 05-Jun-14 21:28:20

Bring it up - they have over-stepped your boundaries and, without knowing this, will probably do so again. (Ugh)

allisgood1 Thu 05-Jun-14 21:28:52

Yes, it's gross. And they should have changed the water themselves. How do you know they didn't?

picnicbasketcase Thu 05-Jun-14 21:28:58

shock
For the love of god, why the hell is she telling people that on fb? Is she just an oversharer, or showing off, or possibly lying to make herself sound more interesting?

kukeslala Thu 05-Jun-14 21:30:43

would they not have emptied it?

spanky2 Thu 05-Jun-14 21:31:08

That is nasty. Why let everyone on FB know?!! Yuck! Never leave them unattended. Unless they were mucking around on FB. I just can't believe that people really share so much!

hmc Thu 05-Jun-14 21:31:28

They sound dog rough - (a) to do that in the first place and (b) to post about it on facebook. Classy!

Scrumpy100 Thu 05-Jun-14 21:31:58

The water would t have been changed - they wouldn't know how.

Picnicbasketcase - I think she sees herself as a bit of a sex kitten that everyone wants, and it started with coy remarks "me and BIL loved our hot tub adventures" and with egging on said the above. Maybe it was embellishment as she wants everything to think she's "cool" with her adventurous sex.... Could possibly be completely made up even (hopes)

RPopz Thu 05-Jun-14 21:32:27

TBH... if you have a hot tub, I would expect people to shag in it.... especially people left to their own devices for a weekend!

But yes, that is gross. And why on earth would you admit that on Facebook!

Lilaclily Thu 05-Jun-14 21:32:46

Ew! Grim !

Universal Thu 05-Jun-14 21:33:41

Dirt bags

SpringItOn Thu 05-Jun-14 21:34:09

How are you refraining from commenting? shock

rumbelina Thu 05-Jun-14 21:34:53

Say someone you know saw it on fb and told you.

Ugh, 'orrible.

It's people soup. What do you expect? And why are you stalking your SIL?

woosey35 Thu 05-Jun-14 21:35:29

You need to think of a way to get your own back.....

Molio Thu 05-Jun-14 21:43:01

Yabtotallyu to have a fb account to spy on your teens. That's just so bad. Much worse than anything BIL did (or didn't) do.

Scrumpy100 Thu 05-Jun-14 21:43:05

I am not stalking my SIL badgersnadgers, I am merely nosey and wanted to see if they'd had a nice/shit time - anyone on FB who says they have not looked at other peoples/family's FB at some point must surely be liars!!

I am having difficulty from commenting tbh but am respecting DHs wishes for now.

Yambabe Thu 05-Jun-14 21:43:26

pft, have any of you ever tried to shag in a hot tub? Everyone thinks it's a really cool sexy thing to do but in reality it's bloody difficult verging on impossible.

She's lying to make herself sound more interesting.

Scrumpy100 Thu 05-Jun-14 21:44:41

I find out more about what my teens have been up to on FB than anything they tell me! They know I am on FB and sometimes message me via FB if they can't text/phone.

From my limitrd experience of Hot Tubs, the chemicals balance is quite fine tuned, and an unpleasant scuzz can forn on the top quite easily.

I think I'd play the innocent and ask them if they knew of anything might have happened to upset the mix. And see their response?

lljkk Thu 05-Jun-14 21:45:53

I think my parents used to shag in our hot tub. Never crossed my mind before to be revolted about it. <Unhelpful Minger>

Molio, she didn't say "spy".

Nowt wrong with having an eye out on what's going on on FB.

Though I do think teens have moved on from it.

Scrumpy100 Thu 05-Jun-14 21:48:40

Lol at being on FB and looking at your teens' FB (which they are aware of) being worse than spunking in someone else's hot tub!!

And ur right Chaos - snapchat seems to be taking over! Maybe I can sign up there and stalk someone?

Scrumpy100 Thu 05-Jun-14 21:50:06

Thanks Chaos, I can't say I have noticed any scum floating, maybe it was embellishment or just a small bit - will be changing/disinfecting regardless.

Next thing I expect will she will do is declare she has thrush lol

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