A few weeks ago I agreed to have my teenage nephew to stay for 2 nights because my sister and her Dh wanted to go away for there anniversary.
She has had my ds on a few occasions including when we went to Dublin for a w/e.
I did mention it to Dh but he was originally going to be away hiking on the moor with a mate so wasn't an issue. However plans changed and he's now not going hiking.
Bit of backstory - my Dsis has a bit of a habit of running to my parents when short of money although it's always for things like a holiday, new car or new kitchen ( to name just 3!) and my dad died last year and it's been me sorting out solicitor etc regards to his estate. Dsis has done very little except moan how she's had to wait for her inheritance. My mum will do anything to avoid upsetting my sister and my sister has used this over the years to get her own way.
My Dh thinks my Dsis takes the piss a lot with my mum and says I should make a fuss to my mum and say how out of line my sister is. But if my mum wants to give my sister cash it's up to her- none of my business.
Dsis asked mum for an advance on her money a couple of weeks ago which she hit and Dh for done reason is livid and is now in a massive sulk about nephew being here. When Dbil dropped him off Dh went upstairs and wouldn't come down and say hello. Bloody childish.
Dh thinks I am wrong to have agreed to have my nephew and us frankly behaving like a child and I'm really pissed off.
Dh is currently on 3 week break before starting new job and hadn't planned any activities with ds over this week.
So AIBU or is he?
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kansasmum · 26/05/2014 14:54
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