Dsc are 6, 8 and 9. There's been a huge history of their mum contact blocking for really ridiculous reasons - I.e. Because dh upset them by not buying them candyfloss, because dsc had a hair appointment (on the day they were due to play a part in dBils wedding) and so on. The children are always really happy to see us (and our 3 dc) and always ask to stay.
Dh got a contact order a few months ago. ExW has breached it for several petty reasons (you didn't brush dds hair adequately last time) and the next contact date is this weekend, when they're due to stay overnight. It's one of the dsc birthdays and we've planned and paid for a theme park trip and night in the adjoining hotel, which he'd love. However, exW has said she won't allow them to stay overnight because they didn't have a bath last time - they were only here for 8 hours!!
The contact order clearly says contact is from Saturday morning until Sunday evening. It's back in court for review next month but if this weekend is cancelled that'll be ten weeks between contact. Dh has told the children they're staying over and is being repeatedly made to look unreliable to the dsc by exW changing plans. Would it be unreasonable to collect them Saturday morning and stick to the court order, returning them Sunday evening, against their mums wishes?
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choplouey · 12/05/2014 23:52
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