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AIBU?

The phrase 'dirty beer'

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Saffra · 10/05/2014 22:34

DH comes home after a couple of beers with friends. Comes and says goodnight to 2.5 yr old dd, and says 'daddy's been drinking dirty beer tonight'. Just in a jokey way. But I don't think it's great to say this to young children. AIBU?

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EverythingsDozy · 10/05/2014 22:35

Can I just ask why you don't think it's okay to say to children?

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CoffeeTea103 · 10/05/2014 22:36

I don't get what's bad about it?

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Sirzy · 10/05/2014 22:36

whats the problem supposed to be?

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SauvignonBlanche · 10/05/2014 22:38
Confused
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BridgetBardotte · 10/05/2014 22:38

Is it that you're worried about presenting alcohol as something really bad and wrong, and therefore making it more desirable?...

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peacegardens · 10/05/2014 22:39

Do people still say this? Grin I remember it from the 1980s. Not sure it's a bad thing though

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Knakard · 10/05/2014 22:39

It's mucky beer and wobbly wine in this house.. Any better for you? Wink

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tigerdriverII · 10/05/2014 22:39

Beer makes your breath smell. So it is a bit dirty smelling. Why wouldn't you say it.

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WorraLiberty · 10/05/2014 22:39
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BridgetBardotte · 10/05/2014 22:40

Knakard, I love the wobbly wine Grin

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Saffra · 10/05/2014 22:41

In my mind, it kind of says that alcohol is naughty but it's ok for daddy to be drinking it.

I've heard DH's family say the phrase quite a bit in the company of my nephew when he was younger too (now 5).

Perhaps I'm being a bit OTT, I'm not sure really. But then, I'm very careful about the language I use in front of DD.

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KB02 · 10/05/2014 22:41

I absolutely hate the phrase but I'm not sure why . Maybe it's simplifying things too much.

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AgentZigzag · 10/05/2014 22:41

Did he mean it in a 'daddy's been out drinking that nasty dirty old beer' and just joking with her?

If he did it sounds fine to me, unless 'dirty beer' has another meaning I don't know about

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Dreamofthe90sisAliveinPortland · 10/05/2014 22:42

Is this a euphemism for some kind of amazing new drug?

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UncleT · 10/05/2014 22:42

Never even heard that before, ever. Just sounds a bit stupid, to be honest.

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Saffra · 10/05/2014 22:42

So many cross posting! Sorry, said dd needed the toilet!

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RPopz · 10/05/2014 22:43

It was always mucky beer when I was a nipper! Wink

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AgentZigzag · 10/05/2014 22:43

If he does mean it like that, surely it's better than him saying 'daddy's been out drinking that amazingly awesome beer tonight'.

Would she really understand the ins/outs of alcohol and it being good and bad at the same time?

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PinkSquash · 10/05/2014 22:44

I cannot possibly see the problem with it? Never heard of it called that before

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peacegardens · 10/05/2014 22:45

Wine is indeed wobbly Grin

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WorraLiberty · 10/05/2014 22:46

He probably said it to apologise for the smell on his breath

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Saffra · 10/05/2014 22:46

Not, not a new wonder drug. And yes , apparently the phrase is still used! And just for normal beer (as in lager).

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WorraLiberty · 10/05/2014 22:47

In my mind, it kind of says that alcohol is naughty but it's ok for daddy to be drinking it.

Well that makes sense

It would be naughty for a child to drink it, and perfectly ok for daddy to drink it.

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grocklebox · 10/05/2014 22:48

Shes 2. Who gives a fuck what he says about beer? TWO.

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Saffra · 10/05/2014 22:51

No, she definitely doesn't understand the ins and outs of alcohol! I do drink too, but I don't attach any good/bad thing to it. As far as she's concerned, it's just a drink.

Perhaps it's me then!

DH and I have had very different upbringings - his parents are very relaxed about alcohol but mine aren't.

Don't know, just don't like the phrase... Can't help it!

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