Ds1 (Y2, aged 7) gets no homework except reading and weekly spellings. However, what really gets my goat is that every time there is a holiday they set some homework. It's almost like they're saying, "We don't 'believe' in homework but, as it's the holiday, we'd better set some as otherwise you will all let your children sit on their arses watching tv the whole time."
Over October it was build a fucking junk robot - ds hates stuff like that (probably because neither dh nor I are that way inclined and we have subconsciously transferred our dislike of crafting to him); at Christmas it was prepare a presentation about an old toy (better task, but we do so much over that period it ended up being a rush at the end) and at Feb half term it was another ruddy craft one 
.
Now we only have an extra day stuck on the weekend and we have a double-sided reading comprehension and an extension task of a poster based on the same topic. I would say it will take at least an hour to do it well and I bloody-well resent it. I am quite capable of providing enriching, educational and fun activities for my children to do when we have a bit if extra time together, without school stepping in and filling in the time for me. He is learning chess, the piano, football & tennis, and regularly uses a telescope with dh. He also enjoys playing around with his younger brother, watching tv etc. He is doing very well at school, but I would feel the same whatever his levels, unless he was really struggling.
I am a teacher so the holidays are precious to me as being 'my' time to focus on relaxing with the dc, but increasingly I find myself stressing over fitting in some waste-of-time project that someone else has decided they need to do. I imagine it is worse for working parents who aren't teachers as they have to fit it in on top of their normal working day and whatever childcare arrangements they have.
We have three days off. Ds has 3X half day unmovable activities scheduled, which doesn't really leave that much time to do the work. I hate homework - as a teacher I find it a waste of time (except revision at KS4), and now I have it as a parent too. AIBU?
AIBU?
To be annoyed with school's homework policy
lecce · 03/05/2014 21:40
'Subconsciously transferred' it my arse 
that's a deliberate and successful parenting tactic if ever I saw one
I think you are being a bit unreasonable, but as you're a teacher I can see why it might get your goat.
It's only an hour, it's not a criticism of you, it's good to teach them that everyone, including parents, have to do shit they're not up for.
The more you wind yourself up with seeing it as unfair the more energy the school is making you spend with their homework policy.
It's not a phrase I'd usually use, but you have to suck it up.
wheresthelight In some ways I would prefer regular homework of a reasonable amount above the, 'Oh, it's the holidays! They're with their parents - quick, save them from the mindlessness!" mindset we seem to have. I am 
at your dss having 6 SATs papers to do over the weekend. That is ridiculous and he would not be doing them in this house, unless he really wanted to (and I mean really, not in a 'I-want-to- please-my-teacher kind of way.) I know ds's SATs are coming up, but I don't see it as relevant. He is 7 and a free-reader. Unless anyone can prove to me that his getting a level 3 now would significantly improve his prospects, I will be doing nothing to try and bring that level 3 about.
Ragwort What do you think he would gain by having more homework?
I have considered not doing it, but ds is adamant that it must be done (doesn't stop him moaning like hell when we actually sit down to it 
)
That is tons for a 5 YO Angels
Just one of them would be enough.
100 spellings??
Why do they give them so much do you think?
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If he's a half decent free reader he'll get L3.
DD2 never did any practice, she couldn't she'd promenade her arm.
HTs face when she turned up after Easter in a full arm cast was a picture
So just don't do it - it's not like they'll take DS out and shoot him or anything 
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lecce - I think my DS would gain a bit of work ethic, understand the fact that everything is not handed to you on a plate, the opportunity to self-motivate, plan and just learn something on his own (or with a bit of parental guidance). and spend less time on the playstation.
I keep reading that children are 'stressed' from too much homework (and I do believe some of the children on this thread are clearly getting too much) but my DS is now 13 and has never been 'stressed' or 'over worked' from homework. I just think 20 minutes a few nights a week would be good. In fact now DH and I do make up our own school work to give him and supervise it for 20 minutes every day.
And yes, he does loads of sports, clubs etc but there is still easily time to do a bit of homework. I keep being told it will increase when he gets to GCSEs but if he's never had the experience of doing homework on time (and getting it marked 
) it might be too late by then. .
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