We live in the south east in an expensive city. We rent our house and have talked for a long time about moving somewhere cheaper so that we can buy. I have been offered a job in a cheaper area- same salary as now. DP would probably get work easily too.
Trouble is- now I have been offered the job, I am not sure I want it and have got cold feet. DC are settled in school, I have networks and a whole life here. DP is very very angry with me as he really wants to move away. I feel like I am the one that does a lot of the school stuff, have built up friendship groups- he isnt bothered about any of that and thus has less ties and its easier to move for him.
AIBU to get cold feet and want to stay- it all feels impossible. I do want my own home but have this vision of sitting in my own house not knowing a soul and wondering if it was all worth it.
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Gwladgwlad · 02/05/2014 16:43
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