Just need to rant, not really going to murder him!
We have two dds, 2yo and 5mo. Dh works away all week, so i don't get any help but dd1 goes to nursery a couple of days. Completely shattered this week but dh home last night so was hoping he could sort the toddler and get her to nursery so i can cajole the baby back to sleep.
Get dd2 down at ten, get into bed myself, but toddler starts crying and have to resettle her a few times, text dh to tell him its a bad day. Up with baby at 230, realise hes not come in. Search spare room etc and send a text, as we have previously agreed he needs to let me know what hes doing so i don't panic in the middle of the night, and i haven't heard anything. He rolls in at three, i tell him off, he collapses in a brewery smelling heap beside me, with me poking him to breathe in the other direction. I am back in with baby at 4 so stay on sofabeed in her room, not wanting to be up and down any more, and avoiding stinking dh. Six am i can hear dd2, listen and she gets frantic, i go in to see if she was alright as left monitor with dh, to find him on her bed with a pillow over his head and her wandering around with a pooey nappy, which i changed then left her to cuddle him until the groclock changed, when he brought her back to me and passed out on our bed. I wasn't about to let him drive so i left him with dd2 while i got her to nursery. Get back and i can hear baby squawking upstairs and it echoing on the baby monitor so it is working, but he is dead to the world. Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. Now i am So tired i can barely open my eyes, but so furious i cant sleep even if i had the chance after i finish feeding baby.
wibu to hit him over the head with a frying pan? Apparently hes going to work from home, so that will be fun. Any suggestions for alternative punishments?
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to murder dh for coming in drunk at 3am on a weeknight?
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bedraggledmumoftwo · 02/05/2014 07:45
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