We didn't send a birthday card to DH's BIL as we didn't manage to organise ourselves in time. BIL and SIL live on the other side of the world so we have to send it 10-14 days in advance. We have always sent one in before but this year just didn't manage to do it; we have had major child care issues, a family death with a funeral to organise and estate to administer and both DH and I work full time. We did send a lovely birthday video from the Dcs which BIL said he loved but SIL, (his DW) has made a real issue about us not sending him a birthday card and this has led to an exchange of terse texts between DH and SIL and MIL hanging up the phone in disgust on DH. I know that birthday cards and the like mean a lot to SIL but surely this is bit of an over reaction?
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