Backstory: my dad (parents are divorced) has got two gorgeous cats, brother and sister, aged 15. They are the biggest, fluffiest, sweetest cats in the world - I'm a huge cat lover! My dad goes abroad quite a lot and usually my mom goes in and feeds them for him but 6 months ago the decision was made for both cats to go and live with my mom for ease....plus she loves them a lot more than my dad does
The female has been on thyroid medication for the last year but over the last month she has deteriorated to the point where me and mom find it upsetting to see her and watch her. I won't list all the examples of how we know she is quite ill, but it's got to the point where she is clearly suffering.
My mom has spoken to my dad about it a few times but his answer is, "She's still eating so she's fine." - she really isn't.
A few days ago I told my dad that enough is enough and it's cruel to make the cat live her life like this. I explained that my mom sees the cat every day whereas he never sees it, and so he should trust her judgement. I said that he's not the one who has to see the cat suffering every day so it's easy for him to ignore the issue. I told him all the signs that me and mom have noticed that show how downhill she has gone and that he needs to stop brushing it off and take it seriously.
The result is that she's being put to sleep this evening
I feel like her death is going to be my fault - she's not going to be here anymore and it's because I've told my dad to do it. I know she's suffering and it's really upsetting when my mom updates me on how the cat is, but I feel so guilty that she's being put to sleep because of me.
Her brother is going to miss her so much - they haven't been apart for 15 years. The whole thing is just horrible
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Writerwannabe83 · 23/04/2014 11:13
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