My daughter is pregnant, living with her partner. Before they lived together he stayed at his mums, the mum is mainly housebound, this is due to mobility problems exasperated by her weight (according to my dd, I've never met her). My DD used to sit with her whilst waiting for her boyfriend to come home.
So, that is the background, partners mum texts him complaining my DD hasn't been to see her, he wants her to go visit his mum without him, she doesn't want to as finds it difficult to have any conversation but is willing to go with him, he doesn't drive but goes by bus when DD is working, she is frustrated and feels he is being unreasonable as the two of them could go together when they have a day off together (dd drives).
As an extra point his mum does appear to create dramas in the family, and has sent texts to both if them saying she feels left out of DDs pregnancy and complained if DD is slow in responding to texts. My DD can be a bit of a brat but says she finds the constant emotional blackmail tiring and she's not getting involved, she will visit with him but not make a special visit without him, we are very close and spend a lot of time doing stuff together so this could be annoying his mum hence the complaints!
So is she being unreasonable, will visit with him but not without ??
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Is my daughter BU in not visiting her partners mum without him?
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Overthehillmum · 15/04/2014 22:26
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