Firstly, I was speaking to a friend last night via skype chat. This friend is someone who sent me a message about a week ago absolutely up in arms about someone who had upset a mutual friend of ours. I've had a difficult week and mentioned to the friend last night about something that has happened to me this week. Friend totally changed the subject and acted as though I hadn't said it. She always does if I speak about me in any capacity, yet she'll happily sit there and talk about others and "oh dear poor old Friend A is having such a hard time at the moment", that kind of thing.
Secondly, today I saw a friend at school pick up that is quite hard to actually pin down to commit to a meet up. When I saw her at the school today she asked if I was busy during the holidays. I said that it would be nice to meet up at some point so that our DCs can play together and we could have a chat(they are good friends). She said, in her usual vague style "Hmmm, we've got a lot on. Oh hold on, on X date we are going round to Lucy's house. I could drop DD off at yours then". Lucy is a mutual friend! So effectively rather than fit me into her schedule, she wants to use me as an unpaid childminder. She always seems to be able to make plans with others no problem and only makes them with me when she wants a favour. I said something along the lines of "Erm, I was actually thinking it'd be nice for US to catch up too, but as you're so busy during the holidays lets leave it for now", and then made my excuses and left.
AIBU to be peed off with both friends and want to not bother with either again?
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To think these two 'friends' are both taking the pee?
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giannna · 04/04/2014 18:51
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