To wonder why CBeebies etc don't broadcast through the night

(49 Posts)
DoJo Tue 18-Mar-14 18:48:20

Just that really - surely it would make sense for all the parents who are up with teething, ill or just restless little ones to have age-appropriate TV to watch so that they can be distracted from whatever ails them.

My son is ill atm and I am more than likely to be up with him in the night, when we will have a wonderful selection of airport programmes and 20 minute long adverts - never thought I would long for Mr Maker or In the Night Garden, but sometimes they are just what you need...

whitepuddingsupper Tue 18-Mar-14 21:27:54

If a child is well enough to watch TV in the middle ofvthe night, then they're well enough to be asleep

DVDs were a lifesaver when my toddler last had a D&V bug that started in the middle of the night, by the time she was cleaned up she was wide awake and sticking a film on calmed her down and eventually she dozed back off on the couch.

Pobblewhohasnotoes Tue 18-Mar-14 21:23:16

Because of bed time hour! Then it's bath and bed. Just put something on catch up.

hazeyjane Tue 18-Mar-14 21:17:24

Unfortunately nearly 4 year old ds not so keen on The West Wing!

Kif Tue 18-Mar-14 21:09:51

Yuh - me too. I got through two seasons of west wing like that. Mister Maker is strictly for daytime. Post 7pm is grownup covered in sick eating dinner with one hand pacing the floor with whingey baby time.

hazeyjane Tue 18-Mar-14 20:33:37

DoJo - have spent many many nights sat up with ds propped up with reflux, you have my sympathy. It is grim. Would a dvd work - we had nights where Despicable Me seemed to be on a loop!

DoJo Tue 18-Mar-14 20:27:40

Maybe it's because mine doesn't watch the 'bed time hour' so bedtime is just when we say it is. I do understand that people use it as a part of their routine, but assumed that they just switched it off rather than having to prove that the TV had gone to bed by demonstrating the lack of programming (might try this myself though, so that's good to know).
Having suffered with reflux and a run of bad coughs, both of which were improved by being upright, I have often brought my son downstairs in the night to make a nest on the sofa and prop him up so we can both get some sleep. If he's coughed so much he's thrown up and had to have a shower, or had reflux which has had him writhing in pain, then he's awake and in need of soothing regardless of whether he might be tired, so a bit of distraction with something is a godsend and it helps me go to sleep to have something to distract me from whatever position I find myself in once he's asleep.
iPlayer doesn't do it for me, as sod's law says the programme will finish just as one of us drifting, and the fact it suddenly stops is often enough to halt the process and ping him (although more often me) awake again. He cannot sleep in our bed (aside from the needing to be upright) - not sure why, as he used to, but now just writhes around and keeps us all awake, so downstairs on the sofa it is.
Looks like I'm in the minority though, so I suppose we will have to watch another few episodes of 'Nothing to Declare' tonight if he's up. He never wants to watch TV in the night, or even go downstairs when he isn't ill though, so hopefully we haven't ruined his life by doing it thus far...grin

GiveTwoSheets Tue 18-Mar-14 20:24:01

I wish it ended earlier it does my nut in. I count down the seconds til i see that goodnight green screen.

CrohnicallyChanging Tue 18-Mar-14 20:20:47

X post, just read that he has ASD, they often do seem to need less sleep than NT children!

CrohnicallyChanging Tue 18-Mar-14 20:20:06

Ouryve, not sure if it applies to older children but I know toddler DD will be up early when she's actually overtired. If she hasn't had enough sleep in the previous 24 hours she will often wake around 6 instead of between 7 and 8. So it might be worth trying an earlier bedtime for him.

But I agree children are all different and if that sleep pattern works for both of you then keep with it!

ouryve Tue 18-Mar-14 20:19:22

He has ASD, so we are slightly grateful for the fact that he does usually manage a 9 hour unbroken night. It's not great, but it could be a lot worse!

FlumpieWumpie Tue 18-Mar-14 20:14:29

ouryve... They are all different! It's the amount of sleep they are supposed to need, but again, I think (as adults) all different. We need lots here! My Year 3 boy is in bath/shower by 6.40pm. Reading school book to one of us by 7.10pm. In his bed and reading to himself (whatever he wants) by 7.40pm. Lights out latest 8pm. He usually wakes about 6.45/7pm. Which is perfect (though sometimes 5.30am if excited about the coming day!). Not so perfect IMO.

ouryve Tue 18-Mar-14 20:06:25

CBBC is only being extended by an hour. The proposal is for BBC1+1 to broadcast after 8pm.

Laughing at the idea of my year 3 boy being in bed by 7:30pm at the latest. He's already up at 5am, most days, as it is.

Artandco Tue 18-Mar-14 20:02:22

I must be very mean. I wouldn't even let mine watch tv in the day when sick let alone at night. IMO if they are sick they need bed. So they get tucked into bed/ on sofa with duvet and book or two like they would before bed. And then they sleep. If they aren't that ill in the day they would just play like usual.

At night a sick child here gets water and brought into our bed. Up to actually be sick then back in bed with us and water. Temp taken and calpol given if needed

Mine would be ill daily for unlimited tv and treats

FlumpieWumpie Tue 18-Mar-14 20:00:32

The reason it finishes then is because it's bedtime!
I find it even more interesting that Cbeebies starts earlier than CBBC (thus assuming that slightly older children sleep longer - NO!).
Apparently (and according to a friend who is a teacher), even children in Year 3 (age 7-8) should be in bed latest 7.30pm.
Don't let them watch TV in the night. Put them to back to bed/sleep or read to them. (I'd have a quick whisky if couldn't get back to sleep/or in pain, but you can't give them that!).

Monetbyhimself Tue 18-Mar-14 19:54:21

If a child is well enough to watch TV in the middle ofvthe night, then they're well enough to be asleep.

( it makes sense in my head at least [grin ] )

hazeyjane Tue 18-Mar-14 19:52:49

I sometimes watch TV in the night if I can't sleep or am ill, and have had times with all 3 dcs when they have watched TV in the night, it's never been a nightmare to get them back to bed afterwards, and it's not become an issue. Different strokes for different folks.

LetZygonsbeZygons Tue 18-Mar-14 19:51:04

I remember variety shows like generation game, muppets, the monkees, happy days, type things.

DR who , Morecambe and wise etc etc.

I do remember mum with Corrie on but then the scandal was Deirdre barlows affair with mike and that was all, not like these days where eveyones at it (>puts half moon glasses back up nose and gets knitting needles out!)<

daisy0chain Tue 18-Mar-14 19:50:15

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daisy0chain Tue 18-Mar-14 19:49:57

I really don't think popping a kid in front of the TV at 2am when they are up teething is going to be the best way to get them to settle back down again. In fact, I think it would have the exact opposite affect.

hazeyjane Tue 18-Mar-14 19:47:20

80smum but back then evening tv was more family friendly wasn't it?

Ooh I don't know I have clear memories of sitting on the sofa with my mum and dad watching The Sweeney when I was little and my asthma was bad!

Threetofour Tue 18-Mar-14 19:45:51

Ikea that's exactly what I think.... I have 4 who have all had bouts of illness and it has never even occurred to me to put on the telly in the middle of the night

Lemonsole Tue 18-Mar-14 19:44:55

Recording the bedtime song is a great way to convince your toddler that it's bedtime at 6:15. Sometimes, needs must.

CrohnicallyChanging Tue 18-Mar-14 19:44:06

Even my 17 month old daughter knows that after the goodnight song, cbeebies finishes and so it's bedtime. And she doesn't even watch it every night, maybe once or twice a week.

On a different note, you know how the first 20 minutes or so of the bedtime hour can change, but then it's always In The Night Garden? Apparently cbeebies tried to change ITNG too, but lots of angry parents wrote in and complained because their little darlings refused to believe it was bedtime as ITNG hadn't been on!

ikeaismylocal Tue 18-Mar-14 19:41:24

I don't think children need to watch tv in the middle of the night, in my experience once we leave the bedroom children think it is morning. Tv would just make the situation worse.

When I can't sleep I don't get up and watch tv, I wouldn't want my kids to learn to do it.

LetZygonsbeZygons Tue 18-Mar-14 19:39:42

I don't think OP is saying it has to be on ALL night, just a couple of hours more till maybe 8-8.30 at LEAST.

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