This evening DH and I cuddled up and took a nap together after a long day. It would have been relaxing but I kept being woken up by DH's phone ringing. I was only half awake so I was too tired to find it and turn it off or throw it out the window. DH slept through it! When we woke up properly it turned out DH's best friend, let's call him A, had called him 9 times on his mobile and 7 times on Skype in 2 hours, then texted him telling to pick up! DH texted back to say sorry he missed his calls but he had been asleep and now we were going out. Then we went out to a restaurant for dinner and A called two more times till finally DH had to pick up to tell him it wasn't a good time! It wasn't an emergency, he was just having problems with a game they both play! A has done this a few times recently, calling repeatedly till he gets a response and his reason for calling is never urgent.
DH has known A since school. He now lives in Scotland while we live in England so they don't see each other much but stay in touch by phone and online. They used to talk a couple of times a week or less but recently A has started calling a lot more. He is going through a difficult time at the moment, he recently took on guardianship of his brother's 2 DC. He doesn't ring DH to talk about this but we think he might be trying to take his mind off things. The thing is, A has not always been there for DH at difficult times and DH does feel that A looks down on him a bit because A has a more successful job. So this does feel a bit one sided.
Is A being unreasonable and how should DH deal with this?
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To think DH's friend shouldn't call so much?
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Topaz25 · 17/03/2014 00:11
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