My dh is self employed, unfortunately over the last few years he has lost customers due to suicide, plus knows lots more who were employees who took their own life
There was another man last weekend, dh is very upset as he met him a fw days before it happened and he said something just was wrong, he rang me that day to ask how the account was, if cheque had come bounced etc as something just didn't sit with him that day,
Anyway we were taking and I said I dont care how much business gets on top of you you dont do that, you talk to me, to someone,
Dh was pretty taken abback and was insulted I think, nd said something along the lines of I would never, have never thought ... I butted in and said well I think mr abcdef wife thought the same until she found him,
I said this story to my dm, and she was horrified that me and dh would have thus conversation ands asked was I worried, did we ned to get dh "help" I said no, I was just putting myself in that poor womans place, how.she.must wish a week ago that he had said something, talked, opened up
Dh said he thinks the reason he felt so odd about their last conversation is that he possibly knew what he was going to do, so was saying goodbye, rather than see you next week,
I don't.know what I am saying really, wibu to talk straight to dh, I am not worried as such, but the volume of suicides is frightening me, has anyone else talked openly like this with their partners?
Again sorry to anyone who had close hand experience, it is awful as an outsider, I can't imagine what out must be like to go through,
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Mmmbacon · 07/03/2014 14:13
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