I overheard my DS telling his brother that a friend told him that "if they are going to be proper friends they need to put their willies and bums together". My DS told the boy that this was stupid.
Do you think this is normal language/behaviour in a year two boy?
So as not to drip feed I believe that there were allegations of sexually inappropriate behaviour against this boy last year but I don't know what they are or for 100% sure that it is this boy. I was told by the "victim's" mother who withdrew her child from the school last year. SS were involved with the "victim's" family because of an unconventional family set up and she wasn't believed.
The boy who said this to my son is very naughty at school and quite insecure but is basically a really nice lad.
I don't want to cause problems for anyone if it is normal behaviour. If I mentioned it to the school would they have to investigate?
BTW I'm not worried about my son who is very clear that it would be a stupid thing to do. I'm just uncomfortable - if the school does have concerns this could be a piece of the puzzle. On the other hand if there is nothing to worry about this could cause huge problems for the family and the child, when it could really be quite an innocent remark.
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"friends put their willies and bums together" AIBU to be wondering about this?
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chnagenameforthis · 06/03/2014 09:49
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