I have a 6 year old DD, 4 year old DS and 2 year old DS. I am a SAHM.
My 4 year old is driving me slowly insane. For the record my other 2 children are perfectly normally behaved and rarely naughty.
From the moment he wakes up, to the moment he goes to bed, he finds things to moans and cry very loudly about. Examples, if I say go into his room and say good morning, give him a kiss and open his curtains a little bit, he will throw a tantrum because I opened the curtains, or on other days it might be because I opened his bedroom door to come in. Even if I then close the curtains, it's not good enough and the screaming and crying continues.
At meal times, he will refuse to eat. Every single mealtime. Often, about an hour after we have all finished our meals, he will go back and eat something from his plate because he realises he is hungry.
Every mealtime usually begins and ends with him crying. I serve his food in his favourite bowl, and he will have a tantrum because he did not want his food in his favourite bowl.
What I'm trying to say is, no matter how I do things, he will find something to cry and create a big fuss about.
Almost every day at nursery pick up I have to pull him along while he screams his head off because I have bought the wrong snack, or brought his umbrella when he didn't want me to bring his umbrella for example.
I am so frustrated and angry as I am writing this. I just don't know what to do anymore. I wake up each morning hoping and planning for a smooth, calm day, and every single day I end up shouting at him, or having to put him in a different room because he is making such a racket screaming and crying.
I don't know how to deal with him anymore, and I'm scared my 2 year old DS is going to mimic his behaviour before long.
Can anyone offer me some ideas, methods that have worked for them? Thank you in advance.
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Kermitpig · 28/02/2014 18:18
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