I have lived in a new town for 4 months now. So far, I have got to know the grand total of zero people.
I don't know how it's done. I have one dd at school, but have not met anyone that way. I volunteered at the Christmas fair hoping to get to know some people but I was just on my own ladling out mulled wine and no one spoke to me.
Youngest dd is 3 and I have only been able to find one local toddler group, which is on a day I work so I can't go there.
It's a small town so not masses of people about. There are no local facebook community groups or anything. I am a bit of a gobshite quite outspoken once you get to know me but I am just rubbish at making the first move, as it were. And no one has approached me, I must have a 'fuck off' face!
I am a single parent which I think is not the norm around here, and I have had a really shitty few years having been in a domestic abuse relationship, and then 2 years of court hearings after it, and I guess that's battered my confidence a bit.
How do people do people integrate into a new place? I need help!
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Chutneypickle · 27/02/2014 00:09
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