When I met my partner a few years back we lived about 60 miles apart. We bought a house together after dating for a year and I moved up to his area, away from my friends and family to make it easy for him to get to work.
We now have a 6 month old daughter and I am on maternity leave.
Prior to meeting me he bought a house and paid for it outright and allows his mother to live in it rent free.
Basically now we can't afford our bills and partner says we have to sell up.
I have a decent job but I work so far from where I live and no family to help with childcare. I'd only earn about £20 a day after all the expense of getting there and daughter's nursery. I've been desperately trying to work out what to do and looking at new jobs etc.
Partner has taken a pay cut in the last year and doesn't look for any other jobs to try and stop us losing our home.
So I asked him about charging his mum rent or seeing if she could get a council house again so that we could keep out home.
He point blank refuses to ask her for money and says we will just lose our home. He'd rather her have a home than his daughter, but she'd be able to get housing benefit/live with her partner.
So am I unreasonable? It's so upsetting that he puts our baby second :(
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Misscraftalot · 07/02/2014 17:30
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