I work as a Manager in the credit function of a bank. As part of my job I occasionally have to travel abroad with Client Managers to check out new clients and understand how potential new businesses operate. In the last year I have accompanied one particular Client Manager twice to a Istanbul. Last month I was due to travel there again to inspect a factory we are intending to lend to, but at the last minute my trip was cancelled and I was told that due to budget constraints only the Client Manager could go. I didn't think that much more about it until today when I had lunch with a good friend who is also quite senior within the bank. He told me that the CEO had personally vetoed my trip because he doubted the necessity of me going and questioned the motives of the (male) client manager in wanting me to be there! I asked specifically what he meant by that and he said the CEO assumed the Client Manager's motives were perhaps untoward!! My friend apparently pointed out that I am happily married with a 2 year old daughter and in the unlikely event, any improper advances occurred they would be strongly pushed away. Despite this the CEO said that whilst he believed in my integrity he questioned that of the Client Manager and so I could not be allowed to travel with him. I am frankly outraged at all this. I have a strictly professional relationship with all my colleagues and have never even considered this as an issue. Secondly, I feel that it is me that is ultimately being punished for speculation about something another person may or may not have intended. I was told all this in strict confidence so not sure what if anything I can do about it. AIBU to think this is effectively discrimination?
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waxinganowl · 30/01/2014 15:40
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