Hello mumsnetters,
Long time lurker looking for some advice. My little girl is in preschool, and turned 4 in November. She is quite a shy girl but has one close friend in preschool and a couple of other friends from the day nursery she used to attend. Actually I think she would like to play with other children in preschool but her friend is extremely reluctant to play with others and seems rather dependent on her (to the point that he used to cry in the first few weeks of preschool if my daughter wasn't going to after school care with him, and his mum tell me he's still really sad about that and has no other friends).
All this is by the by really, but I just wanted to give some background to the friendship. We've had a couple of play dates (I know that lots of people hate that expression but can't think what else to call it!) since before Christmas, to soft play and to each other's homes. His mum is quite nice and I've enjoyed her company but I wouldn't call her a friend (though I encouraged the play dates as I'm not originally from this town and have found it hard to make friends so thought this was one way to try and widen my circle).
Anyway, the little boy's mum keeps mentioning having my daughter over to play on her own and I'm not keen on it. I've only been to her house once but I've never met her older child or her husband. I don't know a lot about them and my kids are used to being left with anyone other than family or teachers/carers. Am I being unreasonable and overprotective to feel uncomfortable with this idea? And if you think I am being unreasonable you should hear my husband's views...!
So, what do you think? Thanks.
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To not let my 4 year old go to her friend's house without me?
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mrsdom · 23/01/2014 17:14
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