I'm starting Ivf next week -likely Monday but could be as early as this Friday I'm not 100% until my period starts.
I haven't made any plans with friends etc for next week and have as few commitments as possible because I don't know how I'll be feeling and when I will have to go to the hospital - probably at least twice.
Mil has just rung and announced that she and Bil and Sil want to come over to see ds on a specific day next week. Bil and sil don't know about the treatment starting and I'd rather they didn't to be honest as they aren't very tactful at the best of times. I've just explained that I don't really want to make any definite plans as I don't quite know what'll be happening. To be honest (and I'm sure everyone will tell me to get a grip) I'm finding the whole thing so overwhelming and worrying that it's all I can focus on, I just can't think about anything else at the moment.
Mil is quite put out however, incidentally this is the first time she has decided to come over since ds started school in September - usually we go to her. Bil and sil hardly ever come over, again we always go to them, so Im not sure why it suddenly has to be NOW.
Mil was huffy and said "well I don't know what excuse I will tell sil, I might have to tell her you're starting the treatment."
Now I feel all guilty and like I've upset mil and it's set me off crying again which I know is stupid.
Aibu to not want to make any plans? Just for a week or two?
AIBU?
To not want to make any plans for next week?
Onelittlebugbear · 14/01/2014 13:29
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