My friend is pregnant with her dc3. She knows we are about to begin Ivf in the next couple of weeks. I know loads of pregnant people at the moment and generally I'm pretty good at faking happiness and then coming home and crying.
She text me to ask me what she should name her bump. Along with a list of possible cutesy bump names because she and he dh were having a vote. I'm afraid to say it set me off crying again.
Aibu to think this is hopelessly insensitive? I can't imagine ever having a vote outside of myself and dh as to what to name our bump, and I definitely can't imagine texting a friend I knew had fertility problems to ask.
Why are people so thoughtless? Why? I know I sound horrible but I'm really struggling at the moment.
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AIBU?
To find this thoughtless at best and cruel at worst.
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Onelittlebugbear · 11/01/2014 08:53
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