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Mil has made me cross this afternoon. She has become increasingly irritating over the years anyway and I'm still wound up over her behaviour whilst here to stay over New Year (they went home Wednesday, was the longest 50 hours of my life), but today she has really pissed me off.
Background. Dh is a teacher. Subject lead in a science subject. They had a new head this year who is keen to prove himself and last term was particularly stressful. He works long hours and bloody hard but he enjoys the teaching and he's good at it. He has totally managed to relax over the holidays and is looking human again He's back to it tomorrow.
This afternoon, firstly she sent him a blank text, so he replied to tell her so. She sent another, saying her message was too long and was it convenient to chat? Dh didn't have time to reply before she rang anyway so wtf was the point of the question?! It wasn't convenient, but she just talked over dh when he tried to tell her so (as usual).
But now the crux. Mil has chosen today to ring him and talk to him about how crappy and stressful his career choice is, how it puts his health at risk and is no good for him and that it's incompatible with family life (her main problem I suspect is that during term time we refuse to schlep 5 hours + up the motorway to see them because there simply isn't time). AIBU to think that at the very least that is fucking unsupportive?! Dh has now lost his last holiday evening of feeling carefree because she felt the need to stick her oar in and now his stress levels are back up.
I hope I am never so mean to my own children.
WIBU to email her and let her know what I think? Can't call her, suspect there'd be no coming back from any 'conversation' that may occur. Also suspect she's pissed yet again so wouldn't remember anyway.
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crapholes · 05/01/2014 19:07
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