I need some outside perspective before my head explodes.
I take care of my nephew two afternoons a week while my sister works. She is recently separated from her EA husband. He was awful for over two years before she finally got away from him by court order.
He has left so much damage, especially my nephew. He's 9 and although a lovable little boy he has such a horrible steak.
He bullies children much younger than him is always in trouble in school fighting cursing and shouting out at the teachers.
Absolutely none if it is his fault he watched his mother be bullied and abused by his father and is showing all the same traits his father has. I feel for him but he is hard work.
Anyway today I had him and his sister and the minute he walked in the door he was at my dd (5) she adores him so follows him around he repeatedly told her fuck off, threw her dirty looks grabbed toys away from her.
I an ashamed to admit I lost it with it him. I told him he is not welcome in my home anymore etc etc.
I just can't put with it anymore.
My sister does not discipline him he has TV taken away for an hour but there are no consequences for his behaviour.
I have spoken many times with my sis over this but its like talking to a brick wall. She told me last week she doesn't believe in counselling for the children ffs!
They need help as does she but its not happening.
Tonight I rang her and explained all that had happened
All I got was as "ok fine then I will put him into after school next week". Ok fine but nothing else its like "right so what nephew is acting up again"
I can't fall out with my sister she parents differently to me and I accept that but if I don't handle thus right we will fall out.
AIBU Is she? What can I do?
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LucyBabs · 03/01/2014 18:49
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