I'm having lots of trouble with my neighbour at the moment. She gets drunk every night and from 7.30pm until the early hours of the morning, she slams internal and external doors, fights with her boyfriend (if he's not already locked up for the night) throws things against the walls and floor, smashes cups, plates etc, shouts, screams, the list goes on.
On the nights her boyfriend is over and they are knocking 10 bells out of each other, I end up calling the police and during the nights she is alone smashing around in the house, I tend to have to call them every other night. I have been told by them to call them if she is making excessive noise after a certain time or if she sounds as if she is very drunk/ fighting etc especially as I have an 18mth old who is disturbed every night due to next door's behaviour and noise.
I also have a case open with our housing association and have to call them whenever we've had a rough night or day listening to all the commotion. I'm currently having to call them every day.
I'm sick to the back teeth of having a grouchy, tired toddler who's not getting any sleep, feeling completely unsafe knowing she could come round at any moment to have a go about me calling the police. I hate the noise. I hate crying infront of police officers at 4am because I'm shattered and exhausted and have to give statements about what I've heard. I hate living next door to all this, but we can't afford to move.
The housing association are sending round an anti social behaviour officer to talk to her, but I have a feeling it won't do a huge lot of good as the police and social services (her children have been removed from her care) have both failed to curb her drinking and violent behaviour. They have told me that they are unlikely to evict her unless she defaults on her rent, which I think her mum pays, so it's unlikely that will happen.
Please does anyone have any advice for me regarding this and trying to get it stopped?! What are my rights? I'm just stuck in a total rut of feeling crap living here and being told by police and housing officers that there's only so much that can be done. Any advice or help would be really appreciated. Thank you for reading x
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To wish the housing association would evict my NDN. Bit of a desperate plea for help, sorry it's long.
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babybearsmummy · 27/12/2013 15:47
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