Dh's grandpa is 86, he is very healthy, active and intelligent. However he is a nasty, mean old man who I have real trouble tolerating and I'm fed up of being told, 'oh well, thats just grandpa'. In the past I've been told I'm an unsuitable wife/ mother as I work and don't obey my husband, I've listened to him be extremely racist, sexist and down right rude. However today took the biscuit. We were talking about big things which happened in the world when he interjected with the following about the terrorist attack on the twin towers, he said it made his day when that happened and shame they didn't kill more people, he didn't like americans and though he hates muslims as well he is glad a few of them died and thinks if they die whilst killing americans its killing two birds with one stone. He then laughed when I pointed out in shock that thousand of innocent people died, to which he said the planet is over populated and he hopes muslims have more success soon. Dh, mil and fil just say 'oh thats grandpa, I wouldn't pay any attention', however he really thinks everyone believes as he does as no one ever challenges him. Today I challenged him and dh just hushed me! I get the views of different generations etc, b6t it makes me furious that these comments and attitudes are supposed to go unchallenged, especially when my children are present. What sort of lesson does that teach them? Aibu?
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old age is not an excuse for bigotry and nastiness
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MountainHeights · 24/12/2013 15:48
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