Earlier this year a local wannabe 'Queen Bee' decided to pick a fight with me over my role in a volunteer community project. After the weird phonecalls & nasty emails I resigned but did n't go into details with the wider group. The project is great and I did n't want to derail it with a personality thing.
The dust settled and I tried to patch it up by doing something for the group but got a direct mail from the 'leader' warning me off. I now avoid anything that the group do. In a small town this is tricky. I've also stopped meeting or discussing my life with friends who are close to her because I think that jealousy was a big factor in her outbursts.
So New Year is coming and as a family we've had an invite to a house party, today the host tells me if I arrive early I should be able to avoid the 'leader'. Small town political nightmare. The host is clearly in a tricky position. Do I:
Send family (our dds are friends) but I'll not go at all
Go early and leave early (DH once he's there will want to stay and there's a quiz planned so might be hard to leave)
Get verry, verrry drunk and cry in the kitchen?
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was this a friendly tip off or an uninvite?
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FestiveBlackBorderBinLiner · 18/12/2013 11:24
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