I've been recently diagnosed with ibs after years of trying to get my dh and il's to understand this. I mentioned the dr said I've developed some OCD like tendencies in dealing with it which is why I dislike going away from home and upsetting my routine too much-I don't like to be too spontaneous!
Then I hear dh has told his family I have OCD and they're all speculating now and having long discussions about it behind my back. I heard dh talking about me saying a lot of things 'make sense' now eg how i like to make sure dc's eat at certain times, I like a certain structure to every day life and weirdly because I get angry if I ask him to do anything. They're all on his side and now I feel like they all think I'm bonkers whereas I think its perfectly normal. I feel like banging my head against the wall!
Would I be unreasonable to just have a talk with them myself and put them all straight or should I just let them think what they like and carry on with my life?
This is really upsetting me :(
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To have 'a talk' with dh and in laws or let it go
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Doubtfuldaphne · 09/12/2013 12:34
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