DH and I are not seeing eye to eye on this at all!
In my family, we generally tell each other what we'd like for Xmas. or we just give money so the person can choose their own gift. this year my parents have transferred some money to our account so that we can buy what we like for ourselves and get presents for the dc. or they would ask for very specific ideas - details of dvds, music, book list etc and shop from that. My sister and I will get each other Amazon vouchers for similar value, or she might send me a link to a specific perfume that she wants.Easy peasy, job done.
DH's side are totally different. they never ask what we might like. so every year I end up with some clothes that don't fit, and that I probably wouldn't wear anyway and which just end up going to charity (we live overseas so can't return or exchange them) plus some old lady toiletries. DH also gets clothes, naff toiletries, random stuff that rarely gets used. it drives me mad, it's such a waste of money when no-one of us have much to spare.
this year we aren't getting anything for each other, too skint. but we thought we'd get the dc to buy each of us a present with some help from the other parent. I told DH I'd really like some new lipstick and bath oil, and specified the colour / brand/ perfume. he says I'm being a control freak and should be happy with whatever the dcs choose for me.
so aibu to ask for what I want for Xmas?
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...to tell people what I want for Xmas
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justwondering72 · 08/12/2013 20:40
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