...the mother of a child who is a peer of one of my children in our local school passed away a couple of weeks ago.
There is no more family living in the UK. Some relatives from overseas are looking after this child at the moment. My own child has never been close to this other child.
I would like to speak to the Headteacher and tell her that she can let Social Services know I am happy to foster the child until the situation is resolved (I would consider adoption too, but I don't think this works this way). The thought of this child getting into some institutional care far away from the local community is heart breaking. The mother was a single mother, clearly in a vulnerable position.
My husband thinks this is a crazy offer; He thinks that if they take it up, it will massively disrupt our lives; that the father can show up in a few years; that she belongs to another community; etc. He would back me up if I think this is the right thing to do, but his opinion is that we should just offer our sympathy and support to the family without interfering further.
So AIBU offering to foster this girl if her family has to go back to their home country and she finds herself alone? Is it even a possibility that this offer is considered or would Social Services just 'centralise' her case and deal with it as if this offer did not exist?
Any advice welcome.
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camaleon · 07/12/2013 19:40
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