AIBU to not want DH to go out and get drunk?
We welcomed DS2 to the world 12 days ago.
DH's friend is having a 40th birthday party next weekend and he wants to go out for a 'proper night out'. Some of his childhood friends are musicians and they are getting the band back together for one last time!
He has arranged for DS1 to stay at his Mum's for the night.
Although I don't mind him nipping out for a bit, I'd much rather he didn't go out and have 5 or 6 pints. I'm concerned that if there were an emergency he'd be incapable if helping out.
He's a good dad. He's taken 4 weeks off work and is helping out. He does most of the nappies, the school run, cooks most of the meals - and I really appreciate all of that. Which is partly why I feel mean asking him not to go out for a 'proper night out'.
I am a bit sad that he doesn't seem to able to see this from my point of view.
So - AIBU?
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AIBU to not want DH to go out and get drunk?
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Throwaway5104 · 30/11/2013 23:46
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