That got your attention, didn't it? 
No, you dirty lot completely forgetting I am one of you not the sex stuff, he does his duty perfectly well in that department.
I have started uni and have been sharing a flat with a lovely man when I go there during the week. He enjoys cooking and eating tasty healthy food and so do I. We take it roughly in turns to cook for each other, though nothing is set in stone. It can just be who is the least busy who cooks.
I have been loving that aspect of my life in that city. I HATE the 'this lot have to be fed' type cooking, that is the only thing DP will really eat. He is very limited in what he chooses to eat and when I cook 'proper' food at home, he will often say he isn't hungry and then eat crap later.
I am taking such pleasure in cooking for someone who appreciates it now though. I do feel almost guilty about it. So, AIBU!
AIBU?
To think if DP is not satisfying all my needs I should go elsewhere to get them met?
MammaTJ · 30/11/2013 19:35
YANBU!
My DH eats 'because he has to' ... to survive pretty much.
I love food.
I plan my day around meals most days.
YANBU. My DP is a ridiculously fussy eater, when we moved in together he had 4 meals that he would eat 
I got him up to around 10 now but I an so bored if eating the same thing or cooking for 2. It was a relief when I had DS as at least I have an excuse to cook different meals now.
Haha, i was wondering how this one would be. You've got to get your satisfaction somewhere! Luckily DH and I are compatible in the kitchen. It would drive me mental of he'd only eat a few things. As it is the only things he won't eat are olives , coconut (that tastes like coconut, it's fine in curry ) and meringue.
However, we do have one issue. it's a big one. And it's me. 
I'm a spoonyfucker
He will eat very plain cottage pie too, but I like bunging allsorts in it.
Eww! I'm with your DH on that one 
Liquorice in your cottage pie is disgusting...
Mine's the opposite Mamma, he hates the texture of meat but loves vegetables. Still loves chips and pizza though. I think it's MiL's doing - she rolls her eyes when I give DS (11 m) meat off my plate at hers; she doesn't give him meat only spuds and veg. When I sent him to hers with a beef stew the other week she sent it back and gave him baby rice with apple that she just happened to have in as he hadn't fancied stew 
They clearly have a psychic link as he obviously can't talk.
Worra, I am impressed you were adventurous enough to try it!!
WillYou, my DD1s speech therapist said that often people with ear problems will reject meat, as the chewing required irritates the ears. She was practically vegetarian at that stage. She eats well now except she works at MaccyDs and gets free food at work.
Ha ha, I have other men text me too and they are all lovely! I have a couple of lovely men who are student nurses with me who I chat to all the time.
I think it is wonderful that my DP trusts me and understands my feelings about being faithful enough for me to share a flat with a man. It isn't an issue for us at all. He totally gets our friendship, which is what we have become. They support the same football team, so DP sends messages to my flat mate about that through me!
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I remember a thread by you recently "wibu to stop cooking for my dp and ds?"
You would not. I'm pleased you've got a friend you can cook with. It's great when friends can fill in the spaces 
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