I am 6 years divorced and have two children. We both live in the same town and no family are close to help out. We split the week more or less 50/50. As I work school hours and term time I have the children extra in holidays and after school etc to help out ExH (who works 50 miles away) and because I like the extra time with them. Since ExH remarried he has been getting his wife to do holiday childcare instead of letting me spend the time with them - it's roughly a day a week (in the 13 weeks of holidays) where I would previously have had them and no longer do. AIBU to be annoyed that I have 'lost' 13 days a year with my children? ExH thinks new wife is 'entitled to' some contact time on her own with our children.