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best friend had sex when looking after my dts

(181 Posts)
pasanda Fri 22-Nov-13 20:41:33

I know nothing came of this, but I'm not sure how I feel about it.

Whilst my best friend and her husband were looking after my dts last weekend, he spent 3 hours doing the ironing (a novelty for him believe me!!). His 'payment' for this was a 'quick shag'. His excuse - he was feeling horny.

So basically, whilst the dts and their daughter of the same age (5yrs) were outside playing on the trampoline in the garden, they had a quickie. She tells me it lasted a matter of minutes shock but the principle is the same - surely?

She is still my best friend and I love her to bits but feel slightly weird about this scenario. Should I?

QOD Fri 22-Nov-13 20:42:57

Yes

Bit over sharey of her too!

FrillyMummy Fri 22-Nov-13 20:43:10

YANBU. Why did she tell you though??

TEEARDIS Fri 22-Nov-13 20:43:13

So you never have sex when your children are in the house? Okay, maybe they are asleep, but children wake up.

No. You shouldn't.

Mattissy Fri 22-Nov-13 20:44:37

No!

Haven't you ever done it yourself?

BatPenguin Fri 22-Nov-13 20:44:44

I wouldn't be comfortable knowing they were shagging when in charge of my children.

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MollyMatey Fri 22-Nov-13 20:46:06

5 year olds, not babies - and in her house, not yours?

What exactly is the problem? Weird of her to tell you though.

As long as they weren't selling tickets or cheering them on to orgasm it's fine.

They were outside ffs

Liara Fri 22-Nov-13 20:46:16

They were out on the trampoline, provided they were out of sight and still able to react quickly if needed it wouldn't bother me.

phantomnamechanger Fri 22-Nov-13 20:46:40

so three 5 yos unsupervised out on the trampoline - no they should not have been having a quickie, they should have been within sight and earshot

Theas18 Fri 22-Nov-13 20:46:43

Regardless of what she was doing ( why did she feel the need to tell you?) I assume , at age 5, you would leave them happily playing upstairs/outside etc?

So what's the problem? I assume they shut the door ..

catgirl1976 Fri 22-Nov-13 20:46:55

I wouldn't have a massive issue with this but if I had been me having the quicky I don't think I would have mentioned it.

Bigfingers Fri 22-Nov-13 20:48:22

What ^ FrillyMummy said. Why on earth did she tell you that ?

meditrina Fri 22-Nov-13 20:48:30

So the DC were all OK and saw nothing?

And it probably took less time than, say, checking the tyre pressures and pumping up as required, or a myriad other domestic chores.

I think I'm envy

bochead Fri 22-Nov-13 20:48:36

WTF?????

oh hell no!

Sorry I'm gonna go out on a limb and say I'd find this totally unacceptable.

Nought to stop a married couple having their quickie * after* I'd collected my kidlets.

Steps back and waits for the abuse to start lol!

TheCrumpetQueen Fri 22-Nov-13 20:48:54

I wouldn't like this. And where did they do it? Hope they wiped down the surface after

OddFodd Fri 22-Nov-13 20:49:02

It's weird that she felt the need to tell you. But other than that, no

FreudiansSlipper Fri 22-Nov-13 20:49:59

well some quickies i have had have taken less time than making a cup of tea

i am not sure why she told you but can not see the problem

pasanda Fri 22-Nov-13 20:50:15

We are best friends and tell each other everything so that's not unusual really. We had a laugh about it all.

I suppose I should be grateful he 'comes' quickly!! smile

candycoatedwaterdrops Fri 22-Nov-13 20:50:22

YANBU in that they should have been supervised on the trampoline but otherwise, YABU for feeling weird about the sex in general.

Nottalotta Fri 22-Nov-13 20:51:08

Bizarre that they told you. I now have the image of her bent over the sink (so they can still keep an eye on the kids through the window.....)

RedLondonBus Fri 22-Nov-13 20:52:08

boc why a 'married' couple? Any couple surely ,no?

Op.... Trampolines can be dangerous. Unsupervised 5 year olds? No I wouldn't be happy

usualsuspect Fri 22-Nov-13 20:54:06

Lol at NottaLotta.

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usualsuspect Fri 22-Nov-13 20:54:38

At least they didn't shag on the trampoline.

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