I have family other end of country who we see a couple of times a year. We've long stopped doing presents , except for big occasions. six months ago my nephew turned eighteen so I sent a cheque in a card. Not v imaginative I know but I couldn't think of anything else plus thats what I did for his sister. Now his parents are quite comfortably off so I doubt he needed the cash but that's not the point. However, whats really irking me is he hasn't cashed it yet. He's definitely got it ..although I never got a thank you..cos his Mum told me. I've reminded them but it still hasn't been cashed. Now apart from the fact that I have to keep remembering its still I my account ( I'm usually down to zero at mend of month!) I think it's really rude and ungrateful..like rejecting my present. Or AIBU.? I don't really feel comfortable saying I need it to go out in case I forget and go overdrawn
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