I moved in with a friend temporarily whilst our (OP and myself) house is completing. OP is living with his DPs (no room for me).
It was originally going to be for about 6 months whilst we bought and renovated but my "friend" turned out to be a demon from hell (disgusting messy, loud, strangers over in the middle of the night, screamed at me at the slightest inclination etc) that I had to leave. So I lied (I know I know) and after a few weeks of trying to sort it out/put up with it I told her that things had changed with the house and now OP and I needed to move in. I felt this was a better reason for "you're a complete psycho and I can't put up with this any more".
I gave her 4 weeks notice (ending on Dec 2nd, when the house should be ours). After screaming, storming off and generally having a paddy we sorted it out and that was fine.
She spent a week or so looking for a replacement housemate and found one she loved who said yes. Great.
But yesterday evening she comes into my room demanding to know when my house will be sorted. I told her about the call to the soliciters I'd made that day and said that I'd let her know as soon as I knew but I'd be out by the 2nd.
"Well, you have to be out by this weekend."
"Sorry?"
"My new housemate starts her job on Monday."
"Right. But I can't move out until I have a house to move to."
"That's not my problem. You screwed me over about the six months so I don't see why I should be loyal to you for the 4 weeks notice. We had nothing in writing, you have no legal standing. You don't exist."
To cut a long story short, after calling my family psychopaths (because I'd confided in my grandmothers mental illness the night before) she threw me out. It was 9pm at night, freezing cold.
Now I'm living out of my car and sleeping on my mother's sofa - over an hour away from where I work.
AIBU to rant and to think she is a nasty piece of ?
(On a different note, I'm concerned that my computer didn't recognise the word "badger" but had no issue with "wankbadger" )
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to think this "friend" is a massive wankbadger?
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Objection · 20/11/2013 17:03
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