My ex and I split up a few months ago, we had been arguing a lot and basically he's older than me and a confirmed bachelor - he didn't want family life anymore (though he loves our 2yo dd).
I'm working part time, have my own home and am self sufficient financially - dd and I are not wealthy but are comfortable, which I'm happy about (ex pays some child support too, we agreed it amicably without needing CSA).
The thing is, dd was a long awaited baby through IVF. She is my world. At the time of her conception we were lucky enough to get three additional embryos which were preserved for us to use in future years. Ex has said that he is happy for me to use them as a single parent, so dd would have a sibling. As I mentioned, ex is older than me and is very unlikely to have more children, I suspect he'll stay a bachelor tbh. I'd love more children and always wanted to use the embryos. I'm 33 so not that young in fertility terms. Aibu to have another child with ex? If anyone doesn't agree with IVF please don't write malicious comments :-(
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mumToOne33 · 18/11/2013 08:48
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