Having read the slightly scary thread currently in AIBU about nurseries, I'm feeling a bit depressed about DS being at nursery.
It's only been 2 months and I really don't know what is ok and what isn't. I know that there are a lot of kids and lots of paperwork and so it's hard to keep up but something is niggling me and I'm wondering if I am jut expecting too much.
Lunch is always accompanied by a really sweet dessert: angel delight, ice cream, swiss roll etc... Is that the norm? Will it be really stupid if I said I didn't want him to have this?
When I go to pick him up he's often dirty. I dot mean from playing. He will have food aroun his mouth for example. Are they just too busy to keep him clean?
They give me those daily report forms which they fill out as I put his coat on. Can they really remember what he did, ate and how much during the day if they only fill it in at te end? I wonder how honest they are about things like how much he slept.
Everytime I go to pick him up he's always just wandering the room rather than actively engaged in doing something. I know it's the end of the day so maybe that's just winding down time but the staff are tidying and the kids just sort of wander about
The staff are really young apart from the manager. Early 20's. Sometimes when I drop him off the kids are all eating breakfast an the staff (young girls) are having a loud chat and barely acknowledge us apart from a hello. Some of them also look bored whenever I see them!
It all sounds very very trivial but having read some of the horror stories on the other thread does this all sound ok or not...
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Jefferson · 07/11/2013 00:02
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