To be upset that nobody cares

(14 Posts)
Tulip26 Wed 06-Nov-13 22:18:19

Having a moan, need a hug. Had a hospital visit today, alone and scared. Not one person in my life has bothered to ask how it went.

Squidwardtenticles Wed 06-Nov-13 22:19:52

How did it go?

CocacolaMum Wed 06-Nov-13 22:21:15

why did you have to go to the hospital?

CookieLady Wed 06-Nov-13 22:21:15

Sending you a hug. How did it go?

Tulip26 Wed 06-Nov-13 22:23:29

I've been having chronic headaches for months. Doctor won't investigate further until hospital had given me an eye test. My eyes are fine (I knew this!) so back to doctor.

pigletmania Wed 06-Nov-13 22:25:24

Giving you big hugs flowers and brew. Hope you find out what's causing it

Anjou Wed 06-Nov-13 22:26:37

Family & friends have a horrible way of sometimes ALL being too busy to get in touch sometimes. I'm sure they'd feel terrible if they realised you felt so bad and that no one had been in touch with you. I bet if you reach out with a brief text to all, lots of people will get back to you, apologising they didn't get in touch sooner and wondering how you are.

Hope you're ok.

CocacolaMum Wed 06-Nov-13 22:26:43

well at least you can tick it off as something that's been checked out. You aren't alone in this, I hope they find out whats causing them x

Tulip26 Wed 06-Nov-13 22:26:54

Thanks. OH hasn't even bothered to get in touch. Had these headaches non stop since early July. Think it may be my depo causing it?

Bettercallsaul1 Wed 06-Nov-13 22:54:10

Very sorry to hear about your chronic headaches, Tulip26. It is good, though, that they are being investigated so something can be done to help you.

It is always scary when you don't know the cause of something, though, and, at times like this, you need the sympathy and support of your family and friends. It's my guess that your nearest and dearest just don't know how upset and alone you are feeling - perhaps you''ve been putting on a brave face? If so, drop it and tell everyone you need help - their moral support and their company. I bet they just don't know how you feel. Tell them, and I bet they come running!

comewinewithmoi Wed 06-Nov-13 22:57:35

Hugs how are you?

kali110 Thu 07-Nov-13 00:46:52

Know how you feel. Had to see slecialist about mine and inly one person bothered to see how i was!
I hah headaches when i was on the depo too

kali110 Thu 07-Nov-13 00:47:50

*Specialist, *only, *had wow so many typos, may be bed time!

I got hormone migraines after pregnancy so I imagine your depo could cause them.

Are you the family 'carer'?

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