Last year, an aunt and uncle organised a big family Xmas meal in the village hall where they live. Many of us went and it was lovely, thoroughly nice time, etc etc. Noises were made about a repeat this year.
Fast forward to this year. Me and the DCs moved house in June. As this would be our first Christmas in our new home, I'd like to spend it at home, with my parents coming for dinner (my parents have come to me for Xmas dinner, with the exception of last year). I've asked my parents about it a few times in the last month or so, and as of last weekend there was no word of a big family 'do' so they accepted our invitation.
I've told the DCs that Granny and Grandad will be coming for Xmas at ours and they are both very excited (Up until we moved, my parents came for Sunday dinner every 2nd weekend - since we moved we've not had the space in our kitchen for a dining table so this hasn't happened since May - but kitchen is getting replaced end of next month with space for a table - yay - just in time for Xmas )
So today, my mum told me that aunt and uncle today invited everyone out to village hall for dinner and they've accepted, and up to us what we do.
I am so disappointed with them It's like they just accepted our invitation until they had a 'better' option and now they've ditched us.
So as not to drip-feed, my DCs are very hard work. DC1 has ADHD and ASD, and I have similar concerns about DC2 though she has not as yet been assessed. Frankly, the idea of being stuck in the house cleaning, cooking and trying to occupy them by myself fills me with dread on Xmas day and I was really looking forward to having my parents there to lighten the load a little, or at least distract me a little!
Now I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. I either a) attempt to do Xmas by myself, which already makes me feel sick thinking of it, or b) disappoint the kids (and myself!) and go to a Xmas day 'do' when really I want to spend it at home for the first year in our new house. Either way, the kids are going to be difficult and confused having had their plans changed.
sigh I know I'm probably being unreasonable and should just man the fuck up and suck it up and learn how to deal with my own fucking kids, but it's just another occasion when what I want is being overlooked, yet-a-fucking-gain! stomps feet
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kinkyfuckery · 27/10/2013 18:11
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