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to find her chronically bad time keeping disrespectful(38 Posts)
My landlady is very hands-on she manages our property herself and makes frequent visits to see us for house related matters (around twice a month on average). She rarely gives much more than a day's notice (which is a issue in itself) and is always, always at least 45mins late for her appointments with us. Often it's not too big a deal as we would be staying in anyway but sometimes we have stayed in especially or have worked around our own appointments to accommodate her. She'll also often cancel last minute which, after a frazzled hour of cleaning to get ready for her visit, is exasperating. She's always apologetic but the behaviour happens time and time again!
Am I being unreasonable to find her seeming disregard for our schedule really rude or should I accept that this us just her and let it go. I really want to have it out with her and tell her how her behaviour makes feel but my husband is trying to talk me out if it. It's always me that has to deal with her by the way!
This sounds awful. I rented my last house for 4 years. I met the landlords when we moved in and again when we moved out. Nothing in between. Once a month is far too intrusive.
Get some proper advice.
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As usual, a mixture of correct and incorrect advice - speak to Shelter.
PASweetOrangeLurve no, any contract term stipulating a tenant cannot change supplier is not legally enforceable. You can't sign away statutory rights in a contract, those terms are just invalid.
Move. Seriously. She doesn't see the house as your home, but as her second home/storage.
I would get out there so quick you wouldn't see me for dust
This woman obviously has issues with letting go of her property.
It's not fair on you at all.
A mate of mine got a flat, and he kept noticing things moving like curtains being closed, a cup that was on the coffee table being put in the sink... turns out his land lady was letting herself in! He only realise when he came home from work ill and caught her in the act
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There is information on the CAB website about energy suppliers and renting:
That is ridiculously intrusive. I would do one of the following:
Suggest a time once a month,same time etc to be available.
Suggest putting her items in storage so she can have immediate access as her regular visits are inconvenient.
Be out when she comes 2 mins late.
It sounds like she is actually breaking the law. She had to give you a minimum of 24 hours notice to request to come round. You can refuse for any reason. If she turns up late and you are out, she cannot let herself in. In fact, I think if she turns up at the correct time and you're out, she cannot enter, unless you've specified that she can.
I don't knowif she is legally allowed to stipulate which energy supplier you ue, either. A rented home is still legally yours, it's not like you're living st home with your mum and she's coming in your room without knocking.
I thnk you need to talk to her about changing these bonkers clauses in your tenancy agreement. They are certainly not normal. If you had gone through a large letting agency, they simply sould not be part of it. These clauses are very obviously her way of being able to present 'legitimate' reasons to keep entering your premises. She should not be keeping boxes of personal property in your home, for example. For a start, she just doesn't need to. The stuff about maintaining the garden is bullshit too. It should just be part of your agreement that you keep the outside areas in good order. She sounds a bit too anxious and obsessive to be a landlady (and I say that as an anxiety and OCD sufferer!).
Twice a month?
I've seen my landlady about four times in seven years - only then to be a tenancy witness for the frequently changing neighbours.
She never comes in.
All the legal stuff above (change your supplier, check your deposit is protected), plus start looking for another house. Landlords like this need to receive an economic signal to change.
Has she put your deposit into an approved scheme?
In relation to the lateness I think the best way to approach that is simply not be there 15 mins after the appointment time. When she rings you to ask why, just say, you said x time and we couldn't wait in. She does not have the legal right to let herself in in your absence. There have been many threads about the chronically late and yes it is disrespectful, it is not ditzy and cute.
You have a right to quiet enjoyment and to change energy supplier regardless of what's in your contract (a contract cannot override the basic legislation on renting and letting). It's also a legal requirement for her to have the boiler safety checked and serviced yearly. I'd seek some advice in this from the CAB or similar and try to find a way of wording an email/letter to her putting your rights nicely. I know it's difficult though as as a tenant you feel that if you assert your rights you might end up being given notice. These amateur landlords are a PITA, they often have no idea of their legal obligations!
Is your name on the actual contract or hers? What about the bills/council tax? She might not want you to change energy suppliers if there is something dodgy going on like she is subletting or she has not told her mortgage provider that she is renting her property? In any case, I think you legally have the right to change energy providers. Please do call Shelter, they are excellent at such things.
Why don't you call Shelter and get some advice? What your husband is worried about is called a "retaliatory eviction" and is the stupid "no fault" clause in current AST's, so that landlords can evict tenants without any reason (basically if tenants ask for perfectly reasonably requirements of their landlord like things to be fixed or for them to enjoy "quite enjoyment" of the property which the landlady is currently not giving you).
I hope you are getting a significant discount for this constant inconvenience?
You've realy got to stop this as it's not on. Next time she wants to pop round on some pretext tell her it's not convenient. Doesn't matter if it is. Say something like "we'l be in between 10 and 11 Saturday, so can you please come then". And then go out at 11:01.
You can change energy suppliers but you might have to switch back before you leave. She's not likely to find out unless she goes through your bills anyway.
Thanks everyone for the really useful advice and support!
Suggest you're too ditsy to pay the rent on time.
Check out www.gov.uk/private-renting. It says as a tenant you have a right to live in a property undisturbed. I think landlords also have to give 24hrs notice before coming round. It sounds as though your landlady is not being fair on you at all.
She sounds like a total pita! I've done a bit of googling and found a couple of links that might be useful re: energy suppliers and harrassment by a landlord.
Thank you for the morale support feels good to get all my grievances out! Another really petty thing is she has forbidden us from changing energy supplier ( it's in the contract) so we are stuck with sky high bills for no reason as far as I can see. We don't have a service agreement for our boiler or anything!
Whirl wig that is very invasive I would limit access tbh.
Yes that's what I suspect Devil's - after we first moved in she made a big deal about coming to get her Christmas decorations and the box she came out with was tiny - like one piece of tinsel and three baubles! The cupboards are upstairs - one in our bedroom and one in the spare room/ study so yes she gets to go right through the house to access them
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