Myself and my ex (both 25) broke up in the new year but we get on great. I ended the relationship and because it's my house, he had to move back in with his mam and a brother he doesn't speak to, not at all far from me and DD. He can see DD (2yrs)whenever he likes, often stays over at weekends to get up with her etc. He really is a good dad and she adores him. We are both incredibly easy going and have no set times or days and that's great for the moment but I understand it probably can't work like that forever and as he is in a low paid job I can't see him moving out. The brother that lives there is an oddball but he's not my main concern, he also has a brother who is in prison for very serious drugs charges and since going into prison about seven years ago, sounds like he's gotten far worse and more hardened than ever. His sisters and mam (who are totally respectable and non thuggy) take my DD in to visit him which makes my stomach turn but they've been doing so long that I don't know how to stop it and I get the impression my poor DD is just being brought as a talking point as they have absolutely nothing in common. The only thing I've ever said I'll never allow is for DD to stay in that house, not now or when the brother gets out which will be very soon. I've known ex since we were teenagers and I remember the trouble and raids he brought to that house and I'm not prepared to let my daughter ever stay there, even if it is to be her dads home for a long time. Am I being unreasonable?
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IamGluezilla ·
17/10/2013 00:25
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