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to consider buying a house without a bath?(37 Posts)
I think I am being unreasonable and am pretty much expecting to be talked out of it.
I'm looking to move house; I don't like my current one and for various reasons the timing is such that if I want to move, sooner would be better.
I've found a nice-looking house (well, nice for my budget) with a huge garden, not too far from work/family/friends. The only drawback I can see is that it has a shower room and separate WC. This wouldn't be a problem if it was just me, but I'm planning on TTC in the next year or so, and I'm thinking that a newborn wouldn't need a bath - can clean in a baby bath/over the sink, but once future baby becomes a toddler then not having a bath is going to be unworkable, isn't it?
It'll be fine. Out house didn't have a bath when we bought it. My eldest was our only child at the time and he used to bath in a big bucket (from wicked but they're sold as toy buckets some places). We did eventually put a half size bath in and now we have three boys I think we'll convert a bedroom into a big bathroom once our attic rooms are done. No bath is totally do-able especially with one child.
Has a flexi-tub been mentioned yet?
Not a deal breaker for me either. I love my showers and only occasionally have a bath. Also, my parents took the bath out of their house and replaced it with a shower. It is fine, and no sad loss.
We do have a bath in our house (the shower is over it), and it does get sporadic use as a bath. I used it much more when the kids were very small, as I just bunged them all in together to make things easier. They have always liked showers too though, even when young. As babies I quite often bathed them in the kitchen sink. No problem.
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I was about 8 weeks pregnant when we made an offer on a house with no bath. There is room for one but the bathroom is newly renovated and we aren't in a position to pay to have a bath put in. The lack of a bath tub was my main uncertainty in deciding on this house.
Neither DH nor I are bath people. When we've had a bath tub, I've gone years without taking baths. I did Internet searching and asking and I'm now convinced the baby really won't know the difference. Apparently there are countries in Europe where it's normal not to have a bath. You just use a baby bath, then go in the shower with the baby/child to wash them, then the child showers on their own. They won't miss sitting in a bath surrounded by toys. It's more something adults miss because of the image in our heads.
My baby isn't born yet but we love our house and I'm confident that it was the right decision. I don't think a bath tub should be a deal breaker at all.
my toddlers sometimes have a bath as a treat but generally are in the shower with me or I throw them in by themselves
like others i couldnt be without a bath, was bad enough when my dp redid our bathroom and had no bath for 2 weeks
also though took a few weeks to get shower in as out of stock and i missed a shower
therefore i like both a bath and shower
Dp who does Property Maintenance and based in Kent if you are near us, he would be happy to come out and quote if you did decide to buy
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and yes taking out a bath and replacing with a shower does devalue your house, esp if a large place as famillies want bathrooms and baths
Thanks for confirming my thoughts...
I haven't viewed the house yet. It looks like the shower room and the toilet aren't huge, but I'm wondering if the wall between them could be taken down and the whole thing turned into a bathroom.
The shower room (according to the floor plan) is a diddy 4'10" by 5'7", but a quick google has revealed that baths are roughly 5'7" (ish) so knocking down a wall, filling in a door and budging the sink over should leave enough room for a bath; just have to add bathroom-renovation to the budget.
I'm going to have to view it aren't I? And then I'm going to fall in love with the lovely big garden... Shall have to remember how much I like baths, and how much my niece and nephew like playing in the bath.
Tea's suggestion that the sale might be on the condition a bath is put in is a good one... Could use it as leverage to knock a bit off the price if the rest of the place is good (that way I get to pick the suite, rather than having whatever the sellers pick).
I couldn't live without a bath, I would have to put one in.
I am sure there will be a way of rejigging it to get a bath in.
You can get small, square baths that are about the size of a really deep shower tray, and have the best of both worlds - lovely for a nice deep bath if you want one, or a shallow bath for a toddler and still practical for showering.
Oh, you can get lots of different things for your baby to lie on or sit on in the shower until they're old enough to stand under it themselves. We used a bath seat and the shower head in the bath for months, mainly because it was so much quicker than running a bath
I would hate not being able to have a bath, I love my baths, as does DD. But then she's always had baths, if she'd never had one she wouldn't know any different.
I wouldn't move into a house unless there was a bath in it, or the possibility of putting one in.
Is there space to jig things about a bit so you can have a bath?
I would only but it if there was the space to put a bath in (a corner bath maybe?). Not just for the DC - but also because there's nothing like a nice long hot bath when you've had a crappy day
I have a bath, but I've never used it and I've lived here 2 years. Having said that, I am pregnant and we are replacing the bathroom and will be putting another bath in for the sprog. Otherwise we would get rid.
I'm with the majority - if everything else about the house is good & there is room to put a bath in then it's not a dealbreaker.
My MIL has taken the bath out of her house and replaced it with a shower and appears to have reduced the value of her house by doing so.
If the house is right for you...buy it. But I would definitely, definitely put a bath in. If it would be cost prohibitive to add the bath, don't buy it.
You are right that a newborn can be bathed in a sink or baby bath, but they grow out of that stage pretty quickly, and while you might be able to get an older toddler used to a shower, there will be a fairly long period where they are too big for the baby bath, but too small for a shower.
A friend of mine is in this situation at the moment. She only has a shower, so is still bathing her one year old in a baby bath. Apparently using the shower just means everybody and the bathroom gets soaked, but the baby bath is not much fun either as her son is far too big for it and doesn't have room to play. They are slowly renovating their house; guess what's their current top priority? Yep, putting a bath in.
A little boat fits better than a paddling pool snd this works well! No bath is not much of an issue!
I'm not a bath person myself & happily lived in a rented house with just a shower room for a couple of years before starting a family. It is very different, though, if you're planning to have children soon - some toddlers are happy with showers, but my two weren't, at all. Possibly it was the noise as we have to have a power shower (crap water pressure). Anyway, I think they were 5 or 6 before they would happily go under the shower so don't know what we'd have done without a bath! Still, you do have time to get one put in. If there's no space / possibility of doing that I wouldn't buy the house myself.
As long as there is space to put one in, I don't think it's a problem.
I couldn't be without a bath long term.
You could do luxurious boutique style bedroom with fancy bath in.
My friends don't have a bath in their flat. Their DD went in a baby bath until about 8 months, then she would happily sit & play on the shower floor whilst parents were in the shower so sorta got cleaned that way.
If its your dream house go for it, as long as there is room for a bath.
We moved into a house without one, it was our first house.
My dh learned how to put a bath in, it isn't difficult, or expensive if you DIY.
I think if I were you I would try and convince myself a bath wasn't that important if I loved everything else about it, but deep down I would know it was a problem. I'm a bath person though and rarely have showers and don't think I could survive long term without hot baths, especially in the winter
Sil has managed from dn's birth with just a shower & I have been showering rather than bathing my dc from about age 2 when they got too big to share our tiny bath.
If its the only downside to the house I don't think yabu to buy it.
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