why is mumsnet so unfriendly and shit compared to netmums

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hellogals Fri 11-Oct-13 22:10:00

Ive changed my name as im peeved off. I asked for a genuine bit of advice about dd2 school, and i got abuse. Everyone is so unfriendly and jump down ur throat. Its very clicky in here and they all stick togethet. At least on netmums u get a fair hearing and gd advice, its crap here.

People come on here for an ego trip and im sick of it. Have a bit if respect and decency for peoples feelings!!! Grrrrr wish it was properly monitored

Horses for courses. I like the brutal honesty and swearing. If it doesn't suit and NM does, use that. BTW I don't like NM but I don't go on there slagging them off. HTH.

scaevola Fri 11-Oct-13 22:12:28

Not everyone likes every site. This one doesn't sound right for you.

dimsum123 Fri 11-Oct-13 22:12:39

Horses for courses. If you prefer netmums just stick with that.

Pagwatch Fri 11-Oct-13 22:12:45

Yes. It's shit here. We are all wankers. Netmums is much better. I never post here.

chickydoo Fri 11-Oct-13 22:13:26

Bye then

notanyanymore Fri 11-Oct-13 22:13:31

You just have to argue back!

puds11isNAUGHTYnotNAICE Fri 11-Oct-13 22:13:48

Go back to NM confused

VerySmallSqueak Fri 11-Oct-13 22:13:49

Can't think why people wouldn't warm to you immediately op hmm

Not everyone likes up front opinions and honesty. You get banned on NetMums for anything except fluffiness. If you don't like it, leave.

Maryz Fri 11-Oct-13 22:14:04

Why did you change your name? Surely you could post "I started a thread here and got abuse" without namechanging. After all, you are anonymous, and if you want people to go onto your thread and be nice, you have to link to it.

nomorecrumbs Fri 11-Oct-13 22:14:10

So? Everyone thought I was a poo troll but I got through it. And actually got useful advice in the end!

RandallPinkFloyd Fri 11-Oct-13 22:14:12

Grrr indeed. angry

Spirulina Fri 11-Oct-13 22:14:27

Ooh goady,goady....

Fair hearing?

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA.

Portofino Fri 11-Oct-13 22:14:45

Its not like that at all of course. You have either been very unlucky or you are on the wind up.

Alisvolatpropiis Fri 11-Oct-13 22:14:48

I wouldn't post in AIBU if you're not prepared for the bluntest end of MN.

HTH

VivaLeThrustBadger Fri 11-Oct-13 22:15:18

Cu. xxxx

Lilacroses Fri 11-Oct-13 22:15:22

Sorry you had a bad experience. In the few years I've been here I've seen some unhelpful, unkind comments but the vast majority are great. I didn't see your thread so can't comment on that but I hope things have improved for your son.

friday16 Fri 11-Oct-13 22:15:38

Original Thread (I suspect):

http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/secondary/a1877458-Pressure-on-daughter#42190172

Bowlersarm Fri 11-Oct-13 22:15:50

Strange post.

Go back to NM then?

ThePinkOcelot Fri 11-Oct-13 22:16:07

And........?

Tiredmumno1 Fri 11-Oct-13 22:16:24

Really, everyone is unfriendly eh? hmm m'kay.

PedlarsSpanner Fri 11-Oct-13 22:17:14

Dear hellogals

I am awfully sorry that you had a Rough Reception here

Lots of love

All of Mumnset x x x

there ya go folks, job done <dusts hands>

chosenone Fri 11-Oct-13 22:17:48

You're either one or the other tbh. Nethuns seems sickly sugary bollocks to me and people not as bright on a different level to here. Like breeds like and I like the honest, sometimes acervic adcuse ive had here.

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