My 72 year old mum lives alone in a large house filled with 'stuff'. She is not like those people on the Hoarders TV show but she is fairly bad at holding onto everything she's ever owned, every magazine, every card she's received. I think at the heart of it she's just incredibly sentimental.
Visiting her drives me loopy with the piles of paper,knick knacks etc. she spends a lot of time 'moving stuff around' and dealing with filing and sorting her mounds of paper like some mad archivist. I think her life would be a lot easier if it was clutter free.
I have at times encouraged her to do a clear out, have a yard sale, get rid of unwanted things, put stuff on eBay and it always ends in tears.
Part of me is also conscious that if not done now her kids will have a lot to go through after her death, although this obviously isn't my main motivation.
I fear I may just be imposing my minimalist way of living onto her but I can't help thinking a clear out would be good for her.
So should I press get on this one or just let it go?? Just would like to get others opinions especially those who have faced similar situations.
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AIBU to push my mum to do a 'clear out' and stop her hoarding?
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williaminajetfighter · 05/10/2013 22:56
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