Well, its actually not for me...
My brother is dying. (Gulp. Not often you type that). Stage 4 emphysema, on oxygen, unable to walk more than a couple of minutes. This combined with severe asthma, Crohn's disease, and a host of severe allergies. You get the drift.
He finally gave up work a few weeks ago (self employed builder) and has qualified for DLA, but he (and me and the whole family) is completely new to this...
Is there anyone who can help identify what he can claim? His house is in negative equity (£120k interest-only mortgage), he's applied for housing benefit. He's also applied for a new boiler (last one broke about 8 months ago). I think he has also applied for help with council tax.
Is that it, or is there other stuff? He can drive still so doesn't need a carer yet (he will do at some stage). The benefits office don't seem to help him - but I suspect he's so embarrassed to be there that he probably hasn't asked the right questions.
He's 50, currently pays a small amount of maintenance for 16 yo daughter (he will get a lot of grief if he stops paying) and he lives on his own in 2 bed house.
Any advice? I - and the extended family - will of course fill all the gaps to make sure he is ok, but he's a proud man and would like to not lean on us if he can help it. But we have no idea how the benefits system works and what support he can get... I am hoping someone on here might be able to guide us...
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CloudyBayDrainageSystem · 03/10/2013 22:18
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