Men who post sleazy shit about their sex lives.

(89 Posts)
WorldPeaceAndFreeProsecco Sun 29-Sep-13 21:19:20

There's no need.

I actually find it really disturbing. Mn is populated by mainly women and some lovely men. So I find something quite, I don't know, creepy? Intimidating? Off, anyway, about men who want to tell us all about their seckshual adventures.

I'd like to invite them to stop.

Also, and this is less annoying but I'll add it so it's all one big ranty op, men who prefix their posts with 'speaking as a man' or similar and then go on to post something completely unrelated to the fact they are a bloke. it reminds me of monkeys swinging their dicks around to assert their dominance.

Aibu?

I know I'm not, but I am tired and ratty and have low tolerance levels today.

Portofino Mon 30-Sep-13 12:01:56

AF and Sheshelob have put it perfectly.

AnyFucker Mon 30-Sep-13 11:57:35

love it grin

Boosterseat Mon 30-Sep-13 11:50:23

I can outsource it!

The shielded cap is v.discreet.

AnyFucker Mon 30-Sep-13 11:38:17

BS, if some of those inadequates can friction their cocks raw while typing one handed, then you can make a hat.

Come on ! Shape yerself ! wink

Boosterseat Mon 30-Sep-13 11:29:03

I want a hat but its difficult to make while typing one handed grin

AnyFucker Mon 30-Sep-13 11:27:58

Tiggy, you have been on MN long enough to know the kind of threads we are talking about. Talking about same-sex handholding is diverting this one, somewhat.

TiggyD Mon 30-Sep-13 11:13:08

Well shesh , what is sleazy depends on the person. my parents would say any talk involving the word s-e-x is sleazy. some would call bumsex sleazy. some would say a same sex couple holding hands is sleazy.

AlistairSim Mon 30-Sep-13 11:06:09

>puts on tinfoil hat<

AnyFucker Mon 30-Sep-13 10:59:06

Very fetching it is too, EC smile

EldritchCleavage Mon 30-Sep-13 10:55:57

Wearing a tin-foil hat of solidarity here too.

FreudiansSlipper Mon 30-Sep-13 10:44:34

And yes Af is spot on

FreudiansSlipper Mon 30-Sep-13 10:41:49

I reported the 'do you have any tights you can send me' thread it did take a while for it to be deleted. In the meantime many were having chats with this twat and defending his little fetish

Fine to have a fetish but this is the sort of person (use person he claimed to be a man, for those that get offended for the menz)but there are plenty of sites for this here you have a direct link to thousands of women

This person is the sort of person who would have made calls asking you to send him your tights would you have engaged with him then no you would have slammed the phone down

Sheshelob Mon 30-Sep-13 10:27:30

Spot on, as per usual, AF.

Tig - I'm not sure I get your point.

AnyFucker Mon 30-Sep-13 09:54:06

I expect I'll get told to shut up for being a whiny, frigid prude who hates sex so I'll keep this brief.

There are some inadequate men who see this site as full of panting, adoring, sex starved housewives to flash their (metaphorical) pathetic , friction-burned little todgers at. And some female posters lap it up for some strange reason.

There are some grandiose male posters who seek out vulnerable women and use their threads as a platform to tell us how the use of porn and sex industry establishments is a God-given right and we should STFU about it if we want to keep our man. There are some women who agree with that standpoint.

There are some female posters who also overshare stomach-churningly about their own sex lives, who further attract the wankers and wah-wah-wah when it is pointed out to them.

MNHQ know who these posters are (I among others have certainly reported them enough times) but because they stay within the current guidelines, their hands are tied.

I, for one, will not stop pointing it out when I see it. Freedom of Speech and all that.

Oh, and what Sheshelob said.

digerd Mon 30-Sep-13 09:53:17

Sheshelob
I am an old<ish> dear and do sometimes stand at bus stops. I was subjected to exposers only in my tender teenage years.
Now, if it happened, an old dear would probably say loudly" Hey, your zip is undone and your little willy is sticking out. Put it away before I whack it with my walking stick/shopping bag" grin.

TiggyD Mon 30-Sep-13 09:52:50

And one person's sleaze is another person's free and liberated discussion.

For instance if you were to talk about cuddling up to your partner for a huggle in front of your TV people would think "That's nice". If you were to mention that it was a person of the same gender many people would think "That's sleazy".

MrsGeologist Mon 30-Sep-13 09:29:01

Yes OP, it's a free internet, people can say what they want, so shut up.

grin wink

Ahem, what sheshelob said.

Sheshelob Mon 30-Sep-13 09:10:57

*like

My tinfoil hat is obviously impairing my ability to type.

Sheshelob Mon 30-Sep-13 09:10:18

Nutters?

Why does saying that I don't being sleazed on in a parenting forum - or anywhere - make me a nutter?

Should I just be grateful for the attention, Janey?

confused

Lazyjaney Mon 30-Sep-13 09:04:58

Seems to me one small bunch of nutters want to shut up another small bunch of nutters on a public chat forum. That'll work...

candycoatedwaterdrops Mon 30-Sep-13 09:00:22

If there are creeps, report them but bear in mind, freedom is speech is allowed.

Sheshelob Mon 30-Sep-13 08:39:12

It isn't about being offended or shocked or wanting a cosy corner of the Internet. It is about drawing a line and saying that it isn't acceptable, which given the amount of "in defence of the creeps" posts there have been, is absolutely required.

Running to the moderator doesn't fix this shit. They keep coming back. So why not show some solidarity with others who are fucked off with it? Why can they have freedom to say whatever they want but we have to be silenced?

Lazyjaney Mon 30-Sep-13 07:30:03

When correctly viewed, everything is lewd.....

There are all different kinds of trolls who come on this site. It's really overthinking it to give more credit to these ones over any of the others. If you're asking men not to post about their sex life because it offends your delicate sensibilities, YABU. If you're starting a thread about one troll that you've seen lately, and are trying to make a bigger deal out of it than it is, YABU. If you're moaning instead of using the report button, YABU.

TiggyD Mon 30-Sep-13 07:23:41

Maybe we need a sleazy shit forum?

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