Ok this is not about questioning his loyalty to me but rather his loyalty to them.. DH and a few close friends work in same field but not in same country so when they get together they party as hard as they work... As they are very high earners they always tend to have certain types of get together.. Anyway DH is quite the child when he drinks and is not that good at evading my inquisition plus he leaves paper trails so I am fully aware of where they go, what they spend etc. anyway what I have realised is that these guys are not particularly faithful... Meaning for them the odd indiscretion doesn't count. DH says I'm wrong to judge and it's not my business, however I do judge and I judge him also for seeing it as boys business and not his concern if they cheat on their wives... Plus in a way if he turns a blind eye and doesn't judge isn't he therefore condoning and in a way thinks it is acceptable to be newly
engaged yet has spent the night with a random Ukranian woman....
This is causing rows and he can't see why I care. AIBU?
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Bellini28 · 23/09/2013 21:23
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