My dh finally agreed to try for a baby this year and as part of the "negotiations" it was agreed that I would work and he would stay at home if and when we had a baby.
He is therefore now encouraging me to apply for better paid jobs and bring home more dosh. However I don't want to start a new job while ttc because I suffer greatly from anxiety and my current employers are supportive, and i couldn't guarantee this elsewhere. Because of anxiety i had to knock back a job with £15k pay rise and because of this I feel like I will never be a proper provider for my family. Also my dh is 20 years older so he will retire in 10 or so years time anyway.
aibu to not want the pressure of being the sole breadwinner? or is this the price of equality?
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evelyn1979 · 23/09/2013 19:29
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